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May 22 - June 21

Basic Personality

Most astrologers describe the classic Gemini individual as having a dual nature, but they struggle to present a clear picture of what this duality is all about. They describe very well the highly strung, quick, clever, decidedly imaginative Gemini communicator. They note the mercurial temperament that swings the individual, usually without warning, into the impossible-to-fathom friend or partner, the elusive, seemingly sly flirt, or the touchy, impatient person who becomes moody, and may send out fiery darts, or skittle you if you point out this (or any other) fault. It has proved harder for astrologers to clearly account for the nature of this duality, beyond pointing out that a duality is suggested by the sign for Gemini, The Twins, and going on to describe the mercurial temperament of the Gemini.

There is indeed a kind of duality suggested by The Twins, who are usually depicted as identical. Identical twins are separate people who, paradoxically, are made from exactly the same genetic material. This can be seen as a metaphor for understanding the paradoxical duality at the very heart of the classic Gemini personality. This paradoxical duality may be thought of, on the one hand, as the urge to communicate, and on the other hand as the equal urge to 'scramble' the communication. It is as though they give out a dazzling number of 'Welcome, do come in' signals, and then, as if suddenly afraid that you may 'gain entry', they change the invitation into an equally dazzling number of 'enter at your own risk' signals. Even highly evolved Gemini individuals find it hard to account for this. For further explanation, we must look to various solar elements, especially Mercury, Gemini's ruling planet.

Mercury greatly influences how we communicate with one another, and this is especially so for the Mercury-ruled Gemini individual, who considers communication with others to be 'life itself' so to speak. It is easy to observe that the classic Gemini has great facility with language, is entertaining, thought-provoking, intellectually sharp, and witty as well as imaginative (sometimes in the extreme), good at winning arguments, and able to make emotional connections with others in a way others envy. However, whilst Mercury encourages communication, it also promotes stress and tension, nervousness and anxiety. Even whilst in the act of communicating, the Gemini is often observed initially as being quite hesitant, nervous, or tripping over the tongue, as the anxiety to 'be heard' builds. Although this is overcome as they follow their urge to communicate, it is not as easy for them as others might think. It may be said, then, that the nature of Mercury's influence, which both encourages and hinders the Gemini in the same primary pursuit - that of communicating with others - is also a paradoxical duality, and gives further insight into the complex nature of the classic Gemini individual.

Intimate relationships are never dull or boring, a state that is intolerable to the Gemini individual, who is either up or down, hot or cold, overwhelmed by feelings or using their sharp minds to gain perspective, with no middle ground. They are helped if lovers or partners can take the mercurial swings without being swept up in them. Lovers or partners will benefit from Gemini's great freedom of expression and sexual intensity, though may be alarmed at Gemini's free attitude to flirtations. They make good parents who are able to communicate with their children even into their teens, and they are usually aware enough to protect them against the more negative aspects of their mercurial mood swings. The challenge for you as a Gemini is to work through your boredom at those times when it is important to your well-being to accomplish something, and to find the middle ground between your mood changes and your instinct for sociability.